I don't have a lot of close friends, and I used to write something here long time ago about how friends should keep some distance to maintain the friendship well. Unsure whethere I should take that back, but I have to admit that this doesn't apply to every friendship, and in certain way, sounds like jerk to say that!

 

I just watched the "Sex and the City" Movie, was not impressed by the story, it was same old, and couldn't get out of the "happily everafter" patten. What impressed me were a lot details among the girls. Charlotte hold Carrie tightly and shouted to Mr. Big to step back after he canceled the wedding, Samantha would fly all the way across the States to hang out with the girls, Carrie took subway and then walked in the crowded dirty NYC downtown in snow at midnight to spend new year with Maranda so that she wouldn't feel lonely, Maranda sent Carie roses, cards, gifts everyday to appologize... all these details, just reminded me how I've been treated so nicely by my friends and how much I miss them, and I realize how come I never appreciated the wonderful friendship I am so blessed to have.

 

All my best friends are scattered in different places, Singapore, Beijing, HongKong, US but the west coast (while I am at the south east), Sydney... we don't have that much chance to talk any more, but whenever I think of them, I just feel so sweet and warm, and I feel guilty for haven't done enough for them. The older you grow, the more you realize that friendship is really one of the most important things in the world. Career goes up and down, guys come and go, but real friends will always be there, listening and making you smile.

 

Love you all my great great friends!